The psychologist’s answers

My parents refuse to accept my boyfriend

Hello, I am 16 years old. I have been with my boyfriend for half a year. At first, only my mother knew of this relationship, and then my boyfriend got into some trouble at home and I was forced to tell my father. My father does not mind me having a boyfriend, but he...

I fear my boyfriend’s reaction

I have a very difficult and tense situation. I have been with my boyfriend for a long time and we love each other. I have never had sexual intercourse and my first time will be with him in a month, but I have a very difficult situation. When I was 14, I masturbated...

Can my parents stop me from moving out?

I am 18 years old and I want to leave home. My parents do not allow me to leave and they threaten me with a lawsuit, they threaten to take my ID, my passport, that they will cancel my health insurance and all payments. I just want to get away from home, and I have a...

I am very afraid of the first sexual intercourse

Hello, I am very afraid of the first sexual intercourse. I do not know how I will be able to relax. I am not comfortable at all. I just have a mental block. I read that it hurts a lot, is that true? How is protection used? Is it possible for me to get pregnant after...

Problems with my boyfriend and his parents

I am 19 years old and have a 14-month-old son. When I got pregnant, my boyfriend and I decided to live together but we did not get married. We have been living with his parents for a year and a half and everything would be fine if they did not interfere constantly,...

How to cope with two small children

I need your advice because I am in a difficult phase. I have two children, a 2.5-year-old daughter and a 3-month-old son. I was 17 when I gave birth to a son and even though I was younger; it was easier for me then than it is now. I am alone with them all day, my...

Am I still a virgin if I masturbated?

I apologize, I am 17 years old and I decided to get married too early but I am not sure I am a virgin. I have never had an intercourse; my boyfriend is my first and I intend to do it with him when I get married. With shame, I have to confess that I masturbated and put...

I have an older boyfriend – does he see a future with me?

I am 15 years old and my boyfriend is 30. We have been hiding for about 9 months and no one knows about us because of the law. He is good to me and we get along well. I am not sure if he thinks he has a future with me. Since you did not mention you had sexual...

My mom is against my relationship because my boyfriend is Roma

The other day my mother saw me with a boy who is Roma, he could not finish secondary school because he had problems and now he works at 17 and at 18 he will get a permanent job. My mother went crazy because I was with Roma and she has such prejudices about him and she...

I am 16 years old and I really want a baby!

Good afternoon. I am 16 years old and have a boyfriend for some time. I want to have a baby and he wants the same but not now. After the conversation we had about it he thinks he dissuaded me from that idea, but I now want pregnancy even more and everything that comes...